bipolar cheating stories
bipolar cheating stories
If I dont I am afraid that I too will turn BP and one day my kids might also. I encourage you to see your doctor, which is the first step on your road to recovery. So, it was the final straw for me; I’ve broken the engagement, canceled the wedding, and found an apartment (which is always an uncomfortable feeling when you’ve lived in a house for so long). We went to see our priest, who recommended us to a marriage councelor/psychologist. The judge that heard our case, at one time was employed by the Tribe, where my ex-husband worked at the time. From my experience, a certain amount of tough love is required. I know a day will come where he will ‘wake up’ and beg me to try again and that scares me. All my family And friends hate him, feel that the bi polar is just an excuse for his behaviour towards me. You have no idea the guilt and shame that haunt us for our past, present and probably future behaviors (even with meds, theraphy, and exercise) NO IDEA. I still love him dearly but cannot be together due to religious beliefs. I wish she could feel what I feel. have any of you people thought maybe your spouse was using “METH”? Refine by tag: bipolar depression mentalhealth anxiety love mentalillness mentaldisorder disorder suicide anxietydisorder sad poetry schizophrenia romance mental selfharm abuse depressed anorexia sadness. But it was through this affair and seeing counselors and physiatrists that we learned she is defiantly bi-polar. while there, he met a chic 15 years younger than us, and immediately hooked up with her. However I did not know about bipolar or that he was bipolar… You do and know why your partner behaved the way he does.. We cancelled the wedding but I don’t know if I should stick around and wait to see when he starts taking meds to see how they work or if he starts drinking again. I was devastated when I found out about the affair, but was never able to deal with it, with him in a healthy way. She’s been left with tens of thousands of debt (the mortgage, the car lease, her student loans and a couple maxed out credit cards, and no one to support her as, at my inquiry, she admitted that her new man – whom she’s decided to stay with – has his own financial issues and can’t give her one cent. He says thre my friends I said then lets see if your “FRIENDS” will let you stay with them. I love this man and it makes me so sick to think of who has become.he was a great person when I met him, he has been a great father and now he is just a sad human being. Personal stories focusing on various aspects of living with Bipolar Disorder - manic depression. She helped me to want to keep loving him. I’ve point blank let him know I could never even consider doing this all over again until I am told the truth about everything, but I can’t help but believe that honesty will never be possible. A psychaitrist told me that if its just a plain casual sex..it is I married my wife last March 2014, I wast prepare of every thing as i am aware of bp, last year she was on her deepest swing and i saw her in her ugliest face and she was sent to mental hospital, she was my gf 20 yrs ago but yet still decided to marry her as i love her so much… I read many stories bout bipolar, i assumed that if my wife is within my radar extramarital wont happen. At first I thought cool there is a rhyme to the reason. Within months of my arriving, I cought him back on the porn sites. I had hate for her because of her actions and the way she acted up and down all the time messed my head up I did not know what to expect next she said the d word on multiple occasions and emotionalg drained me to the point I loved her but hated her so things were off. I’m sure there are many more compliments coming your way – just keep doing what you’re doing! i am at a loss, feel as though my life will never be the same. Did my insecurities pushed him to do it? I have to make a decision. I wrote the original post and am now giving up. He can have his trash that he cheated with and leave us alone. They'd been seeing her the whole time. Opinions anyone? I love her I want her to be safe and happy but I cannot look at my wife like a child this has to end …. When I asked why, she told me I didn’t need to know where she was all the time, and that I was being too controlling. I haven’t seen or heard from my daughter in almost two years. When he is manic, he is insulting, arrogant, narcissistic and he screws everything in sight. I was married to someone who is Bipolar I. I think she always accuses me because she is the one up to no good ? My son’s father has all the BP symptoms and I have been with him on and off almost 16 years. I would’ve stopped myself at any time if I really truly asked for help and not lied to my psychiatrist about my emotions. I do have trouble concertrating sometimes but as you can tell, I have a lot going on! So, does if worth it losing your sanity and wonder and try to heal the wounds and can you ever trust a person after this? Even sexual contact felt differently. He is undergoing weekly psychotherapy but he is not on medication. I rarely read blog posts that are that long but your message is powerful. cops in car eating telling me he isnt suicidal they reissued the warrant so again hes free I’m done1 its killing me literally in the past yr I have been diagnosed with diabetes, fibromyalgia high colesterol and I have thyroid desease. For many people, these are unbearable behaviors. Now she is blame shifting and saying that I am the one cheating. sorry that you have to endure this but RUN FAST. One minute he was my close loving husband and then he would switch…He even ignored the kids.. My health was affected living with this hot/cold behaviour.. Dont lose him cos life is lonely without yr partner. Only after years of treatments and after consistent medication. In the beginning, I read every book or article I could get my hands on. I missed him terribly, but at this point its now about recovery from all the trauma. And after our divorce, I eventually found out that I was one of many that he was involved with at the same time before our marriage, I was so hurt. he tells me its due to the medication. He spends all his money on stupid immediate gratification things, and refuses to pay what he promises. He goes out quiet often but claims it’s for work. We were together for over a year and what I didn’t know at the time was that he met me when he was in a manic state. My life was all about managing my husbands addictions and his moods. She needs help. I have been with people who have one or both of those issues and they seem to be comfortable with the unhealthy dynamic because they thrive on either being the rescuer and martyr or creating drama and pushing buttons so they can be the perpetual victim they are. Without consequences, what would ever motivate them to change or “get better”. At this point in time, he believes it’s me, and that he is capable of having a healthy relationship with someone else, and I know he will move on easily and start again. Today, the day of our divorce, I am hurt and totally miss her and her children; however, I know in time I will heal and probably for the best. Of course I found out she was still seeing him and enough was enough. I meet with a divorce attorney in a few days. It’s not being “easy” or having sex for fun. My income is not enough to support us in out current lifestyle, consequently we have been sinking financially. The following day i thought was the start of us rebuilding our marriage…then he suddenly turned into a different person, went home from work and said he is no longer happy in our marriage, he wants to be single, and that he is packing his stuff and he will spend the weekend at a friend’s house. You can be normal and not some heartless monster. She has been this way all of her life. She told me all this at the time because she was annoyed with it and told him she wasn’t interested. My hurt is real, My pain is real, Knowing he is BP does not make me feel better. but there is an understanding as to why it happened. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. We are trying to get disability for her now, hopefully it will come through and we can get her in to a psychiatrist for regular sessions. I told her I can’t MAKE her happy, I can only support her and love her and try my best to help her be happy, but ultimately, she has to be the one to take action to fix her illness. I am in the process of trying hard to end an affair with a married man – simply because the logical part of me knows it will go nowhere and that we are both “addicted to the self-medication” or the “fantasy”, as the first entry here describes. I texted her I want a divorce this is too much stress. This is really insane and what a sudden switch of behavior! Your email address will not be published. I had one final exam left before spring break. Regardless, it is very painful on the kids, spouses ect… I’m extremely worried that she won’t come back mentally? This time I made him work harder for my forgiveness, didn’t think I could trust him again, slept in different rooms and put any plans of moving forward together on hold. I have heard it time and time again. It seemed like I didn’t know who I married and during our marriage, it was so bad that somewhere I had allowed him to control my feelings and I began to question who I was. There is so much I haven’t covered that I have been through with my wife but the affairs messed me up the worst. (He did not reveal this to me until we were far too involved in a relationship; by then, I was in too deep.). If your partner is not willing to get treated, GET OUT! I have been heartbroken and cant believe this happened to our marriage. ), Masturbating more than once a day without satisfaction, Increased sex drive leading to more sexual experiences with my husband, Illicit activities when out at clubs with friends. I questioned myself and my … I tried to reconcile with her a month after finding out and on the condition of no contact with her partner. Not once did he call or text me on his way there. Have told her this many times, but no action. She later wanted to reconcile, but said that she could not guarantee not having another affair down the road at some point. It took our daughter to tell her, “If yo don’t fly right I think Dad is going to up and leave because of your having to have a beer every chance you get.” Well that worked for a while but I don’t think it will last. I am now on medication because the multiple affairs showed me how sick I am. I am married to a man that adores me, we have two young children and we are successful. I am Bipolar I and have cheated on my husband. So you have two choices: moderate the behaviors and/or moderate the expectations. I spend my time looking after kids (which is great) and going work. you are a very strong individual,she is ill,speak to your gp and ask to be referred to a specialist with your spouse,do not think you are weak or to blame because you are NOT!! About a year ago this went all wrong, both of us had been under an extended period of stress, my mother was diagnosed terminal, he was being bullied at work and we had failed fertility treatment. Sadly we cannot afford a psychiatrist since she has been unable to work for the last 2 years. Fuck him. So I don’t say nothing to her but just gave her a knee as I always do when she might snore and that was it. Diagnostically, the presence of hypersexuality is an indication of a possible bipolar diagnosis. i had no idea that he would ever do such a thing because we have been faithful to one another all these years. I cannot take her staying in contact, and she is unable to stop. She was just diagnosed BP today.she signed the divorce papers after her appointment with her new doctor.he wants to see how the low dose of seroquel her np prescribed her works for the next few weeks.she says pot is the only thing that takes away her pain so she is continuing to do it daily with this scumbag.she knows now that this is for sure her sickness that she has suspected all along but still feels that she is in love with the other guy and can’t come back because of it.she is ashamed to face family and friends.but IV assured her that they all know that this is bipolar and not her.they all miss her too and want her back in our lives.she made sure to ask me if I would tell my parents she was diagnosed bipolar.she says she is always depressed and crying and cannot sleep anymore.she has been in this episode for about 2 months as far as I can tell.the beginning seemed manic and hypersexual.i think she still is hypersexual with this guy but she is always down and crying unless she is high.when and will the real her come back?she said that she is afraid that if she did and this happened again that she would kill herself for sure.i told her that since she has been diagnosed that treatment will get her well and happy again.I promised her that and that her family is here in her real home with me.should I give up hope?when will this end?I’m doing all I can to understand this disease. Save yourself. I knew for sure because he broke up with me every week and was not seeing me for a week and we fight through text messages and ask me to sign a prenup and called me names and just didn’t care about me anymore. He left me and my son who has autism in a state that we just moved there because of his new job for a Vermont woman he met in 2009. You have to see GOD or whatever you believe in and take control of your life. He’s fetish with pregnant women also scares me and I know he will always have it. She always thinks I am to no good but it couldn’t be further from the truth , I love her to bits and wouldn’t dream of cheating She left the state to live with her brother for a year then came back to the small town we lived in and got close. sorry to ramble but sometimes its like why cant she just get it or do I have to leave her and let her world fall apart around her? And I was embarrased because we lived in his hometown for the duration of our marriage and not only, I didn’t know anyone when I moved to his hometown after marriage but during our marriage he made it impossible for me to make friends with people in the community. That woman bought an air ticket for him to fly to Vermont where she lives. Anyways it was enough with all the history of blaming, meanness, etc. One day last November, my wife woke up angry. She broke down and stared crying and apologizing. I have been married for almost 8 years. Hey, I know what you mean (ezcept my wife is not cheating that I know of) it is hard to give up and to admit it is final. Stress seems to be a factor leading to her becoming a monster, I seem to be her victim of choice. I noticed she was hiding me from her friends and family and I felt she did not want to be with me even intimate was just not the same. Even though his meds are finally right, and have been for 2 years, I don’t know if he will ever be capable of feeling/processing feelings like a normal person. Good luck to you all and God Bless those of you who continue to stay and fight for your loved ones. I know better but my heart hurts. Since he has been gone he refuses to talk to me or communicate in any rational way, not even to discuss his intentions. Because I suffer from my own mental issues (substance dependency) and am committed to this professionally, I feel almost hypocritical. I read through most of the posts. Sort of like taking painkillers. However for the time being I have been taking away the things that maybe tempted me more to looking for sexual attention like social media (facebook, instagram, snapchat, etc) and gaming (because I was a gamer girl and not too bad looking gamers were very easily attracted to me) and this has helped. About a month and a half ago i was caught busted (one of many many times) sending a naked picture to my 22 yr old “toy” . What lead to me having the affair was I felt as if I wasnt loved by anyone. My wife is now stable and her greatest daily trial is living with the guilt of what she did to the children and me. Either way he is my husband and best friend and I plan on being here to support him the best way I can. I wish you the best my friend. the thing is ive only went as far as “oral”…and then it was on to the next one. This lasted for 10 years of my 27 years of marruage with him . She also started buying things online. They become what they believe you want them to be and once they have you in their net, they are like narcissists or sociopaths. I’m reading all the stories and I’m scared to death that I am bipolar. A couple months ago she started getting depressed.said it was the worst she has had.a coworker started to flirt with her and she stopped it.she was a very loving happy wife.she started acting distant,so one night I asked her if she wanted to divorce me.she said it made her so upset that she swelled on it for days.and she woke up didn’t love me anymore,and started having strong feelings for her (scummy) 7 years younger coworker. That I won’t be a monster that will keep hurting my husband and family. The biggest thing that destroyed our relationship was his inability to accept accountability for his actions. I’m in a very similar spot now….good times. I cried and cried from the stress and shock of the situation. I would love her to meet someone. She said the moment she fell in love with me was on our third date. So, it doesn’t matter whether she is ill or not, kick her ass, divorce imediatelly, find a good woman ( is there a lot over there waiting for you) and be happy! She has blamed everything but her self. Learn to love him/her with his/her flaws. I had my family in counseling before I even found out. I told my best friend Nancy that in my most manic high (the stage of my mania where I was so high I could literally orgasm without any physical contact) that the little Jiminy Cricket in my head was so quiet I almost couldn’t hear him. Are there any medications anyone suggests her to look into that will curve her swings? After 2 yrs. Do I want them to live in a home that is unstable? After going through what I thought was postpartum depression and anxiety, I’ve come to understand that it was probably postpartum bipolar disorder. When I tell her this is her last chance to resolve their financial mess she insists that she needs $100 of play money per month to get her nails done, hair done, makeup and whatever she wants. Of bed through a mutual friend that she is not, there is a man at work throuhout the in. 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